Jess Lenouvel

10 Biggest Mistakes I Made As A Real Estate Agent

One of the fastest ways to succeed in real estate is to learn from others’ mistakes.

And trust me, I’ve made plenty! From limiting mindsets to leadership growing pains and marketing mishaps, I’ve experienced it all.

But these struggles aren’t unique. Through my mentorship programs, I’ve guided thousands of agents through similar challenges. Many have gone on to build thriving multi-6 and 7-figure businesses by avoiding these common pitfalls.

Let’s get into the ten biggest lessons I’ve learned from my real estate business so you can sidestep these mistakes and accelerate your success. 

1. Listening to advice from mentors who didn’t align with my vision.

Too many agents follow the advice from mentors before asking themselves:

“Do they actually have the life I want?”

I was guilty of this, too.

I built my real estate business up to 7-figures, but it drained the life out of me. In part, because a lot of the people I followed at the time preached a “hustle” mindset.

When I was on the verge of burnout, I made a conscious decision to do things differently.

I realized the importance of aligning myself with mentors who embodied the lifestyle I truly desired.

This shift in perspective was crucial for rebuilding my business in a way that actually enhanced my life, rather than depleting it.

2. Not letting go of team members who weren’t a good fit soon enough.

One of the most important parts of leadership is having the courage to have difficult conversations. Equally important is being radically honest when something (or someone) isn’t a good fit. 

I made the mistake of holding onto team members even when I knew they weren’t right for the role, thinking it was kinder to keep them on. I avoided having uncomfortable conversations about their performance, because I wanted them to like me. 

These people-pleasing tendencies had a negative ROI on my business.

Don’t let your desire to be liked be greater than your desire to do what’s best for the business. 

Remember that you are not your business. So rather than get caught up in your personal feelings, try to stay honest and objective about what’s working – and what’s not. 

3. Only advertising listings and thinking that’s enough to bring in a steady stream of clients. 

I fell into the trap of relying too heavily on ‘just listed’ and ‘just sold’ social media posts, believing this was enough to attract clients.

By relying on just listings, I wasn’t differentiating myself from other agents.

Instead of just showcasing properties, a more effective strategy involves storytelling, getting creative with content formats, and sharing detailed case studies of client experiences.

By focusing on the human element and the value you bring, you can create more engaging content that resonates with your ideal clients and distinguishes you as the go-to in your market! 

4. Being a generalist instead of niching down.

In the beginning, I tried to be all things to all people, spreading myself too thin and diluting my message.

By not specializing in a specific demographic, I struggled to stand out in a crowded market.

When you niche down, everything becomes easier.

Your marketing becomes more powerful, drawing in perfect-fit clients.

You start getting more referrals, because people know exactly who it is you help.

Your processes and systems become smoother because you’re not trying to offer a million different service packages.

Remember, in real estate, being known for something specific is far more valuable than trying to be everything to everyone.

Struggling to figure out your real estate niche?

Check out this blog I wrote for some inspiration on profitable real estate niche ideas!

5. Chasing money instead of working with clients and on projects that brought joy and fulfillment.

I used to chase money at all costs. I’d take on any client, any deal just to fuel my ego and my bank account.

But working with anyone and everyone only led to burnout and dissatisfaction.

If you want to build a business that’s not just profitable but sustainable, it’s time to start being selective with the clients you take on. 

When you work with clients who align with your values and goals, you’ll find yourself more energized, creative, and successful in the long run.

6. Spending ad budget without a systematized plan.

Ads are now a huge part of my marketing strategy. But when I first started out in real estate, I wasted money on ineffective ads and boosting posts randomly without a strategy. 

And I see SO many real estate agents who make the same mistake.

Here’s what you need to know. 👇🏼

Ads are not a magic bullet. You have to validate your messaging and organic content first before jumping into the paid game. 

Go in with a strategic plan rather than thinking that boosting random posts is going to build a successful business.

7. Being a control freak and afraid to delegate tasks to my team. 

One of the biggest mistakes I made as a real estate agent was thinking no one could do the job as well as I could.

My perfectionism and lack of trust in others led me to micromanage and take on WAY too much.

I was very much caught up in the “lone wolf” mentality and it ended up stunting my business growth and leading to burnout.

If you find yourself falling into these limiting beliefs, remind yourself it IS possible to find a team of A-Players who will treat your business like their own.

Learning to delegate and trust your team is the only way to scale your business to 7 figures – without it consuming your life. 

8. Not prioritizing building my personal brand.

In the early days, I made the mistake of hiding behind my business instead of showing up as my authentic self. I rarely showed my face in my content and was terrified of making videos.

I convinced myself it didn’t matter – my clients only followed me for real estate advice, right?

This approach held me back and stunted my growth.

Without a
strong personal brand as an agent – you will always struggle to stand out in a competitive market.

Once I pushed past my fear and started putting myself out there – showing up on video, sharing my story, and demonstrating my knowledge – everything changed. 

I attracted more clients who resonated with my approach, and my business grew faster than ever.

Building a personal brand might initially feel uncomfortable, but the results are so worth it. 

9. Not being decisive enough in making important decisions.

I often found myself in a state of indecision, trying to keep all options open.

This led to missed opportunities and wasted energy.

In business, money loves speed.

Learning to make quick, confident decisions – whether it’s a resounding yes or a firm no – is key for capitalizing on opportunities and maintaining momentum.

Decisive action speeds up results, accelerating both your learning AND earning. 💰

10. Spending too much time on busy work instead of my zone of genius. 

It’s easy to get caught up in the day-to-day tasks that keep you busy but don’t move the needle in your business. This is a mistake I see real estate agents make all the time – and it held me hostage for far too long.

Identifying your strengths and the activities that yield the highest return on investment is key.

Focus on these high-impact activities and delegate or eliminate the rest.

Learn more about how to find the needle-moving tasks in this post where I show you how to do an energy audit. 👇🏼

READ: Why Energy Management Is More Important Than Time Management For Real Estate Agents

These mistakes cost me years of stress and thousands of dollars – but you don’t have to repeat them. 

Avoiding these common mistakes real estate agents make is key to building a sustainable, profitable business. 

If you’re ready to ditch the hustle mentality and fast-track your success, let’s talk. 

Book a call with our team today to see how The Listings Lab can help you sidestep these pitfalls and create the real estate business you’ve always wanted. 

How To Plan Your Real Estate Goals: From Long-Term Vision to Daily Action

Does this sound familiar?

“I’m not on track to complete any of the big goals I planned for this year.”

How about this?

“I’m not sure what I need to focus on or what I need to be working on.”

Many real estate agents feel this way at some point as they scale their businesses.
But there’s one tool you can use to overcome the uncertainty:

Intentional goal setting. 

Start by envisioning your long-term goals. 

Paint a clear picture of where you ultimately want to be in ten years. 

Then, the real magic happens when you break your 10-year goal down into smaller, more manageable goals – 3-year, 1-year, and quarterly increments.

This way, you have clear, actionable steps that move you closer to making that 10-year vision a reality. 

So, step away from uncertainty and gain clarity over your real estate goals with a definitive and effective plan for success.

Here’s how!

Setting Long-Term Goals As A Real Estate Agent

I’ve seen far too many agents who only focus on the now and neglect future goals. 

Realtors get trapped in a cycle of always chasing after the next deal – instead of planning long-term. 

This kind of short-term thinking can make it nearly impossible to reach your vision. 

If you don’t have a map for where you want to go, how can you possibly expect to get there? 

This is why you need clarity in your vision. 

Ask yourself, where do you see your business 10 years from now?

By having the vision piece clear, you can set actionable goals to hit your 10-year targets.

That vision of what you want your life to look like ten years from now drives how you set your goals. 

Your goals then drive all of your planning. 

Once you’ve planned how you’ll reach your goals, your planning dictates your resources and how they get allocated. 

Then, the resources you allocate drive your execution. 

Do you need to outsource certain things? Get more training for yourself? How are you going to use your time?

Finally, your execution will always directly influence your results. 

The key to all of this comes back to: Do you really know what you want?

Do you know where you want to be ten years from now?

So many agents are short-sighted in their thinking. It’s time to think beyond what you want to achieve this year. 

Instead, start thinking about what you’re building towards with your long-term vision. 

Is what you’re doing pushing you closer or further away from that ultimate dream?

Breaking Down Your 10-Year Vision

Once you’re clear on where you want your real estate business to be in ten years, don’t get distracted by shiny things along the way. 

You need a clear path that leads you to your 10-year vision. Then, you must rigorously follow it without veering off track. 

Start by breaking that 10-year vision down into three-year increments. 

Identify the priorities that need to happen to reach that first three-year milestone.

Then put tasks in place to reach that goal.

These three-year milestones become your map to reach your final destination. 

To gain clarity on your 3-year targets, there are a few things you want to consider:

Your Finances

By the end of your first three-year milestone, where do you want to be from a revenue standpoint? 

What’s your profit? 

How much do you have in savings? 

Do you have passive income streams built out?

Think of your finances as a whole – not just your business, but your whole life.

How are you building your business to support the lifestyle you want?

Your Team Structure

You can’t be a solo agent forever if you want to build a 7-figure real estate business. 

“Trying to” will only lead to burnout. 

So, in three years, are you still a solo agent? 

If not, how are you going to build a real estate team

Additionally, part of creating your team structure comes from deciding if you thrive in a more visionary or operational role. 

Think about how you want to fit into your team. 

Do you prefer to be knee-deep in operations or are you a visionary who loves coming up with ideas and planning for the future?

Having a clear understanding of this will help you build a high-performing team that keeps you in your zone of genius! 

Your Time Off

Finally, consider how much time you want to spend working. 

Clarity in terms of money and finances is one thing. 

But it’s important to remember not to get so caught up in hitting your revenue milestone that you forget to take time off. 

How much do you want to be working per week? 

Are you working a full 8-hour day or a 3-hour day?

How much vacation time do you have without your phone or laptop, completely off the grid?

Considering these factors – your work hours, daily schedule, and vacation time – is crucial. 

They’re just as important as financial goals in creating a balanced and sustainable business.

Which brings us to this important reminder:

Your Goals Can’t Just Be Monetary 

Success in real estate involves more than just financial gains. 

I firmly believe that people who allow their work to bleed into their personal lives have a lower chance of being successful. 

Instead, you put yourself at a higher risk of burnout. 

The reality is it’s not all about the grind 24/7.

Instead, set boundaries on your work hours and use your limited time to work on the most needle-moving tasks. 

Then, you’ll have more energy to actually move closer to your goals for your real estate business. 

So, how does limiting your work hours factor into your 3-year plan?

Create Your Ideal Schedule

As a real estate agent, when setting your 3-year goals, think about your ideal schedule. 

Map out an entire week of what your ideal day should look like in three years. 

Do you want to be able to drop off and pick up your kids from school every day – and do super focused work in between?

Do you want to have someone else running the day-to-day of your operations?

Do you want to divide your weekly workload into types of tasks that you can focus on each day? 

Mapping out your ideal week helps you visualize and work towards a business that lets you put your life first. 

These set the foundation of your 3-year plan for your real estate business. 

With them, you can craft the building blocks to make your 3-year plan a reality. 

Then, you’ll have deeper clarity to gauge whether you’re on track to reach your 10-year goals.

Planning Your Annual Goals As A Realtor

Now that you have your 3-year real estate business goals planned, it’s time to plan your annual goals.

Just like your 10-year plan, your 3-year plan also gets broken down into thirds – which become your 1-year goals.

Your 1-year goals should be mainly focused on where you want your revenue, profit, and personal pay to be. 

How many transactions do you need to hit those targets?

How do you plan to find the leads you need to fulfill your money goal?

Really think about what exactly you need to be focused on in the next year for you to reach your 3 and 10-year goals. 

Then, identify what your annual goals should look like. 

Achieve Your Goals By Setting Quarterly Rocks 

The next step is to set your quarterly rocks in your 90-day plans. 

The Quarterly Rocks Analogy was created by Gino Wickman to symbolize the importance of prioritizing your 90-day goals. 

It works like this:

Imagine you have an empty jar, and this jar is one specific size. 

Many realtors get distracted from their main goals by falling into the shiny object syndrome. When this happens, you throw sand and pebbles into your jar. 

Meanwhile, the rocks are the pieces of your business that absolutely have to get done this quarter.

But if your jar is already too full of sand and pebbles, you won’t have room to squeeze your rocks in. 

When you’re planning your quarterly goals, your major business priorities HAVE to come first. 

Anything else not directly related to those priorities is secondary. 

This keeps you focused firmly on track to achieving your vision. 

How to Plan Your Quarterly Goals

The first step to planning your real estate quarterly goals is knowing what your rocks are. 

What do you NEED to prioritize this quarter to reach your money goals? 

Decide what your major projects are for the next 90 days, then break them down into daily tasks. 

For most real estate agents, this comes down to knowing where there’s the most opportunity. 

Where do you want your income to be and what does that look like in terms of transactions?

Get really specific here. Analyze your market and the average sale price of properties in your area. Find the exact number of transactions you’ll need to meet your money goal. 

Now, figure out where those transactions will come from. 

This can normally be broken down into referrals, new clients, repeats, and people in your audience who are already warm to hot. 

Here’s how to audit your lead sources to discover where you have the most opportunity:

Auditing Your Lead Sources

Most realtors are only marketing toward the 3% of people who are ready to buy or sell their homes now. 

However, by only marketing to this small percentage of leads, you’re ignoring the rest of your lead sources.

Most real estate opportunities lie in targeting people in the information-gathering stage (approximately 17% of your audience) or leads who are even earlier in the process, in the problem-aware stage (approximately 20% of your audience). 

Identify where the majority of your opportunity is coming from before setting your quarterly goals.

This way, you know where to aim your focus to keep the needle moving forward. 

To help you narrow this down, do a simple audit of the four main lead sources:

1. Referrals

Everyone always thinks referrals are the easiest way to generate new business. 

However, it takes work to keep your referral database warm.

If you haven’t been maintaining your database, it’s going to be hard to earn transactions through referrals. 

2. New Clients

New clients are the ones who found you from organic social media, paid traffic, free downloads or trainings you offer, and communities that you join. 

How good are you at taking these people from completely cold to hot?

Your lead generation strategy is a huge part of how well you convert new clients. 

Ask yourself: how many people are finding you on a regular basis and how many of those people do you actually convert?

Rate yourself on how well your lead generation works at bringing you new leads.

Many agents struggle with converting new clients because they aren’t bringing in enough people. 

The top of their funnel is broken. 

Think of it this way: If you want 20 extra deals a year from now with new clients alone, you have to bring in about a thousand new people into your audience every year. 

Can your lead generation systems handle that? 

3. Repeats

Look at the people you’ve worked with before. 

It’s crucial that you maintain that database – especially if the market has changed. 

This can be as simple as becoming Facebook friends with every single person you’ve ever worked with. 

The goal is to keep them warm to you so when the time comes 3-7 years from now and they’re ready to buy or sell again, you’ll already be top of mind. 

As you audit your repeat clients, take the time to also look at how well you’re maintaining these relationships in an automated way. 

Rate yourself on this as well. 

Even sending regular emails to keep them updated on your business and your services can have an impact on your number of repeat clients. 

By keeping your clients warm and up-to-date, you foster long-term loyalty.

4. Warm to Hot Leads

Your warm-to-hot leads are the ones who are already in your audience. 

They are the ones who have been following you for a while but haven’t needed your services yet.

With these leads, your goal is to advance them down the customer’s journey so that they go from curious about your services to realizing they need your services – and sending an inquiry. 

Can you easily take them from where they are in your nurture system and get them to become a client?

With these four lead sources in mind, rate yourself from 1 to 10 on how good you are at converting within each source.

Out of your referrals, new clients, repeats, and warm-to-hot leads, where are you receiving the most sales? Which ones are you underleveraging?

Maybe you realize you’ve already got some inbound leads from social media, even while just posting a couple of times a week. Time to amp up your visibility there and create a 90-day content strategy!

Maybe you realize you’ve got a strong client experience and have gotten a couple of referrals, but you could be even better at maintaining your database and systemizing your follow-up. You might decide to prioritize these projects to get more referrals. 

When you understand how you rank in your lead sources, you can better plan for your money goals.

Then you can set your quarterly rocks and the daily tasks that need to happen for you to make your real estate goals a reality.


As a real estate agent, it’s always tempting to put all of your focus into chasing the next deal and landing the next sale. 

But when you get intentional with your long-term vision and set clear goals to follow along the way, you’ll have a clear path to creating a real estate business that works for you.

If you need help creating your long-term marketing goals, apply to join us in The Listings Lab.

Our program has helped hundreds of real estate agents create a roadmap to achieve their goals without hustling or working 60-hour weeks.

We give you the step-by-step framework to create a sustainable, profitable real estate business aligned with your ultimate life vision. 

Book a FREE call with our team to see if The Listings Lab is right for you. 

Instagram Stories For Realtors: The Best Tool To Build Your Personal Brand

Picture this: You open Instagram, ready to post a story, only to freeze and wonder,

“What should I even post?”

You’re not alone. I talk to many realtors who feel the same way. 

Posting to your Instagram stories can feel overwhelming, especially when you’re just starting out. 

We tend to overthink each story. There’s so much pressure for every post to be groundbreaking and value-packed that you never get around to hitting post. 

In reality, stories don’t have to be so difficult. 

Instead of seeing them as a platform to constantly add value, think of them as a space to connect with your audience on a more personal level.

While it’s tempting to focus only on your business, listings, and real estate tips – that’s not actually why your followers watch stories. People want to see those behind-the-scenes moments that give them a peek into your life. 

Instagram stories allow you to show off the human side of your business and create genuine connections with your followers. 

This post is going to be all about how to beat the overwhelm around stories and start showing up consistently. 

So keep reading for an easy-to-follow guide for realtors wanting to build a strong personal brand by leveraging Instagram stories! 

Build Your Consistency Muscle

Instagram stories are a great way to stay engaged with your audience throughout the day. 

But for stories to be effective, you need to be consistent.

Building up your consistency on Instagram stories requires forming a new habit. 

Just like starting a new gym routine or learning to play an instrument, it takes regular practice and commitment to make it a part of your daily life.

Your brain is already pre-programmed with a certain set of daily behaviors that have become nearly automatic over time. 

Adding a new habit into the mix requires forging a new neural pathway, which is why staying consistent with something new can feel so challenging.

So, to make it simpler, try habit stacking

Habit stacking is when you “stack” a new behavior – like posting to your stories – onto an existing habit. 

This helps you build that muscle memory and create a new habit with less mental effort. 

For example, I run a series on my stories called Coffee Thoughts. 

Every morning, when I have my coffee, I take a picture either of me or my coffee and share three tips or thoughts relevant to agents in my audience. 

The reason why I do this is simple.

While it’s easy to forget to post to my stories, I’m definitely not going to forget my morning coffee. 

By stacking the two together, I’ve created a new routine that I can follow consistently. 

Try to brainstorm how you could incorporate habit stacking to make your story habit stick. What kind of daily series could you try?

Think about something that you do every day and how you can tie a quick story post to it.

Then, every time you do that thing, you’ll have a built-in reminder to post a story. 

Just remember, make sure your post is relevant to your ideal client and not other agents or industry pros. 

Although it’s great to stay connected with your peers, they are not the ones you need to speak to in order for your stories to convert. 

Document, Don’t Create

With emails, blogs, and social media posts already on your content creation to-do list, posting to your Instagram stories can feel like yet another task.

However, Instagram stories don’t have to be as complicated as they’re made out to be. 

So, instead of putting so much pressure on yourself to sell your services and your brand through your stories, document; don’t create. 

Gary Vee first coined the idea of “document; don’t create” when he spoke about content marketing. 

The idea is simple: create content by documenting your life.

Documenting is still creating content – just in a more fluid, organic way.

I talk to so many agents who feel they need to act a certain way in real estate. It’s like they’re wearing a mask or performing.

But what if you could just be yourself?

How much easier would marketing your business feel? 

Instagram stories are the perfect place to bring your personality into your marketing.

Rather than spending hours scripting the perfect video or trying to design story slides in Canva, take photos and videos throughout your day. 

For example, I take a walk on the beach every evening with my husband and my dogs and  I’ll take pictures along the way. 

Then, I’ll post a picture from that walk to my stories. 

This is just a part of my daily routine, but it also sends an important message to my audience. 

These photos of me on the beach convey a sense of freedom, which is what I help agents achieve through my mentorship programs.

Ask yourself:

Who are YOU targeting and what lifestyle do you want to showcase on your Instagram stories? 

If your ideal client is young families, maybe you take photos of your daily trip to the park with your kids or you cheering your kids on at their soccer practice. 

This shows you understand that family comes first. But most of all, you create a connection between you and your audience. 

The key to standing out in the crowd of an already saturated real estate market is to create a strong personal brand.  

By using your stories to show your daily life, you’re allowing your audience to get to know you on a deeper, more personal level. 

This way, when they’re ready to buy or sell, you’re the first person that comes to mind. Because of the strong connection you’ve created through your content, they’ll be inclined to choose you over anyone else. 

Don’t Get Caught Up In The Metrics

One important thing to remember when it comes to Instagram stories for realtors is this:

Don’t get too caught up in the metrics. 

I said it before, but Instagram stories are about consistency. 

The more consistent you are with posting stories, the more people will start watching them. 

Focus on sharing what’s going on in your life and what’s on your mind.

The way you think and your regular presence will attract people more than the occasional brilliant story.

When you get overly invested in the analytics, you begin to overthink your stories. You stop sharing because you’re worried about how things will ‘perform’.

And pretty soon, that consistency muscle you’d built up starts to weaken, making it even harder to get back on track.

So remember to ignore the vanity metrics, trust the process, and keep posting. 

It takes time, but your stories will become something your followers look forward to. And eventually, engagement will naturally follow! 

Show Behind-The-Scenes And Personal Content

My most popular Instagram story was one I definitely did not expect. 

It was super simple. Just a picture of my braid after I cut it off with the words, “I did a thing.”

But within five minutes, I got 150 DMs of people engaging with and responding to that post. 

And it was just me documenting my day. But these personal moments and little updates are what people truly care about!

Many agents focus solely on promoting their business. This makes your brand feel very business-like, stiff, and corporate. 

And as a result?

You lose followers and get low engagement. 

But when you incorporate fun behind-the-scenes content, you’re adding in that human touch. 

Personal content helps you connect to your audience on a human level.

As realtors, you’re only relevant to your followers maybe once every 3-7 years. 

By sharing your personal beliefs, philosophy, and story, you’re making sure you’re staying relevant to them the entire time in between. 

Don’t forget, social media is meant to be social.

People want to see you, get to know you, and build a relationship with you. 

Sharing these relatable moments – like making a change to your hair –  helps your audience see the person behind the business.

This keeps them engaged and interested in what you have to say – even if they don’t need your services at that exact moment. 

Guide To Posting Instagram Stories For Realtors

Using Instagram stories effectively can significantly boost engagement for realtors. Here’s a quick guide to posting your stories and keeping your audience engaged:

1. Use a mix of photos and video.

You want to make sure you’re using a good mix of photo and video stories. 

Posting your stories in multiple formats helps to keep your audience engaged until the very end. 

Have you ever gotten bored watching six video stories in a row?

Or just tapped through a bunch of pictures without really paying attention?

By using a healthy mix of photos and videos in your stories, you hold people’s attention longer.

Maybe you share an opinion in a video clip then share a photo that relates to it. 

This gets people to keep watching AND pay closer attention to the purpose of the content you’re sharing. 

2. Use engagement stickers.  

Instagram offers plenty of interactive stickers that help watchers engage with your stories. 

You can add polls, quizzes, sliders, and stickers to ask your audience questions or get their opinions on the things you’re talking about. 

These tools are simple ways to encourage interaction and make your stories more fun. 

3. Post often, but not too much.

Instagram recommends a minimum of 3-5 story slides per day to receive the most engagement. 

However, at the same time, you don’t want to overwhelm your followers with a 20-part Instagram story. 

Sometimes, less is more.

4. Let your story fully “expire.”

This last one is a hack I’ve noticed by watching engagement in my own content. 

Let your stories fully expire before starting the next one. 

When you let your story fully expire before posting new ones, it helps boost engagement. 

Instagram loves new content. 

By spacing out your stories, Instagram prioritizes showing them to your followers. 

This increases their visibility and helps keep your content feeling fresh and new. 


Once you start posting consistently, you’ll quickly realize that creating Instagram stories isn’t as daunting of a task as it initially seemed.

When you do it enough, it just becomes a habit.

The key is to just start. 

At The Listings Lab, I teach real estate agents different ways to build a strong personal brand – including using Instagram stories. 

If you’re ready to connect with your audience and create relationships that convert, click here to book a FREE call with our team today.

5 Unique Real Estate Marketing Ideas to Grow Your Audience

Does it feel like you’re building your audience online but still struggling to land new clients?

You’ve already been consistently posting on Instagram and Facebook.

You even send out monthly or even weekly newsletters.

It feels like you’re doing all of the right things.

But your followers are other real estate agents, home stagers, or industry professionals.

NOT people who would actually convert to clients.

To get clients through your real estate marketing, you need to make sure you’re growing your audience with the right people.

While it’s great to connect with peers, it’s CRUCIAL to engage with potential buyers and sellers within your ideal client avatar.

This post will go over a few unique real estate marketing ideas to grow your audience and snag the clients you’ve been waiting for.

Let’s get into it!

Tip 1: Get the Algorithm to Work for You

One major mistake real estate agents make when it comes to social media is focusing on quantity over quality. 

Too many people focus on amassing as many followers as possible. But without the RIGHT followers, you’re wasting your time.

When your followers are people who aren’t interested in your services, your engagement tanks because your content isn’t relevant to them. 

A.k.a when you’re trying to sign clients off of social media but your following is filled with other agents… you’re content isn’t going to convert because you’re not reaching the right people.

Without engagement, Facebook and Instagram are less likely to show your content to the people who actually need it.

Having fewer, highly relevant followers works more strongly in your favor than a larger count of random followers.

So, sift through your followers and delete the ones who aren’t relevant to you.

Then, create content that’s super targeted to your ideal client.

Go deep into their hopes, dreams, and struggles to create content that will really resonate.

The more value you offer them, the more engagement your posts will receive, and the more likely the algorithm will work in your favor.

Tip 2: Engage with Your Ideal Clients on Instagram

Another unique real estate marketing idea is to grow your Instagram audience by actively engaging with your ideal clients.

This means putting in the work to find and connect with potential clients in your niche.

Don’t just wait for them to come to you.

Start by finding profiles that match your target audience.

Whether your niche is new parents, empty nesters, or pet owners, look for people in your area who might be interested in your services.

Then, engage with their posts.

Don’t just like their recent posts. Leave thoughtful comments or even share relevant content.

By actively interacting with your ideal clients, you’ll attract new followers who are more likely to become new clients.

Tip 3: Build Your Facebook Network

Your local Facebook groups are goldmines for growing your audience and building your network.

Search for groups in your neighborhood or geographic area, then look for groups specific to your niche.

Once you’ve joined the groups, engage with your community through them.

Answer questions, share your knowledge, and offer advice.

Establish yourself as an authority in the community.

Show that you’re a valuable resource.

Then, once you’ve started building relationships, send friend requests.

Remember, don’t just jump directly into sending out dozens of friend requests the moment you get accepted into the group.

You don’t want to spam group members before you’ve proved yourself as someone who offers value.

Build genuine relationships first and you’ll attract an audience who sees you as a trusted expert.

Tip 4: Leverage Other People’s Audiences

During an event, I once asked how many people in the audience had heard of me from a podcast or training I had done with someone else.

Almost everyone raised their hand.

When you’re growing your audience, don’t be afraid to ask other more established industry experts for help.

Do an Instagram story takeover, go live in their Facebook group, or be a featured guest on their podcast.

You can use their audience to help grow your own. Here’s how:

Find Complementary Audiences and Relationships

The key to leveraging other people’s audiences is to find communities that are complementary to your own.

You should look for communities that serve the same ideal client but in different ways or with different expertise.

For example, if you work with young families, maybe there’s a store in your town that already has a decent social media following.

Offer to do a free training that their audience of new parents and young children would find valuable.

They already have an audience that likely includes families looking to buy or sell property.

By getting in front of these families with your free training, you’re able to reach new potential clients who wouldn’t have known about you otherwise.

Lead With Value

Whenever you participate in an audience swap, it’s not just about advertising in other people’s communities.

It’s about giving true value.

This is something that I see all the time in my Facebook group. I get DMs asking if they can pay me to be able to post in my group.

I always deny these requests, and most fellow group owners do too.

People who build communities want them to be a valuable resource for their members. If you’re going to pitch somebody to do an audience swap, always approach it from the perspective of:

“How can I give the maximum value possible to these community members?”

Not only will this increase your chances of being invited to speak, but you’ll also get far more leads and clients this way.

People have a tendency to tune people out when they feel they’re being sold to.

Lead with value, and audience-swapping will grow your audience AND your bottom line.

Cross Pollinate Audiences

The fastest way to leverage other people’s audiences to grow your own is to “cross-pollinate.”

Basically, think about how you can work together to provide value for each other.

Can you exchange trainings? Maybe do an interview swap? Could each of you take over the other’s Instagram story for a day?

Find ways to collaborate so you both share your respective followers, exposing each other to potential new clients.

Pro Tip: Make Sure You’re Worth The Follow

Leveraging other people’s audiences and cross-pollinating is the most effective way to grow your audience.

However, for it to work, you already need to be producing high-value content.

This way, when followers from your guest audience visit your profile afterward, they decide you’re worth the follow.

Which brings us to…

Tip 5: Master Content Creation

How can you be sure you’re producing high-value content?

First, it starts with your ideal client avatar.

Your social media feed can’t just be filled with promos about your services.

There has to actually be content in there that your ideal client needs to hear.

Create content that speaks directly to their hopes, dreams, and fears. This way, you’ll become a go-to resource for them, building trust and connection in the process.

To do that, there are three types of social media content that you should always be posting:
1. Authority-building content
2. Social proof (case studies, testimonials, PR)
3. Personal content

With these three types of content, you can nurture your new followers so that when they’re ready to buy or sell, you’re the first person they think of.

Ready to master content creation for social media to help grow your business?

Check out this post for a more in-depth look at the three major content buckets for social media: Master Real Estate Content For Social Media With These 3 Types Of High-Converting Posts

Bonus Tip: Facebook Ads

Once you’ve mastered your messaging, the next way to grow your audience is to start leveraging Facebook ads.

With Facebook ads, you can amp up the results you’re getting with your organic marketing.

Keep in mind, this is an advanced strategy. Make sure your messaging is validated and your organic content is successful before advancing to this level of real estate marketing.

Doing ads is like pouring fuel on a fire.

But if what you’re currently doing ISN’T working, ads won’t be the magic spell that fixes it.

Think you’re ready to launch your first ad?

Here’s everything you need to know about Facebook ads for real estate agents: Facebook Ads For Real Estate Agents: 5 Steps To Get Leads On Autopilot


Growing your audience takes time and work.

It’s not something that happens overnight without effort and intention.

However, with these five unique real estate marketing ideas in your back pocket, you’ll be well on your way to growing an audience filled with tons of perfect-fit clients.

Want to dive deeper into these strategies and more?

At The Listings Lab, we give agents the marketing foundations and principles they need to grow their ideal audience and create content that converts.

Book a FREE call today with our team to learn the exact methods that took our members from having no leads through social media to gaining several leads a month organically!

How To Build Real Estate Systems for a Scalable & Successful Business

Have you ever felt hesitant to set up systems for your real estate business? 

You’re constantly busy, so when you think about building a whole system out from scratch, you might think to yourself:

“It’ll be faster to do it manually this one time.”

That might seem like the best and quickest solution at the moment but…

One time turns into twice.

Then, it’s once a month.

Then weekly.

Until suddenly, you’re stuck in a cycle doing the same tasks manually over and over. 

All this time, you could have had automated systems to save you countless hours of work. 

By working without the proper real estate systems in place, you become the bottleneck of your business.

Systems exist to simplify your processes, save you time, and allow your business to grow with ease. 

When you’re stuck spending time and energy on low-value tasks, you can’t focus on scaling your business. 

Today, I want to show you how building your systems NOW sets you up for long-term success.

So, let’s get into it, shall we?

8 Basic Systems For Real Estate Agents 

A system is made up of the tools and processes that you use for different parts of your business.

Think of them as the bricks your business’s foundation is built on. 

As your business grows, it will need to scale its operations to meet increasing demands.

When you have the right systems in place, that growth becomes so much easier.

Here are 8 basic real estate systems for realtors:

  • Marketing Systems
    Your marketing system encompasses the strategies and processes you use to reach and engage your target audience.

    This would include your processes for planning and scheduling social media posts, email campaigns, and ads. 

  • Client Generation Systems
    A client generation system helps you expand your audience and increase sales.

    The best client generation systems use automations and funnels to ensure a steady stream of leads. 

  • Onboarding Client Systems
    What do you do when you take on a client?

    Your onboarding system will make sure every new client you sign receives the same top-notch experience from the start. 

  • Offboarding Client Systems
    Just as your onboarding systems are for when you take on a client, offboarding systems are for when your contract has ended.

    This keeps clients happy and encourages repeats and referrals. 

  • Contract-To-Close
    Think of all the tasks you do repeatedly, from signing contracts to closing deals, including transaction management.

    90% of contract-to-close can be automated.

    This saves time and money and lessens the amount of inefficiency in your processes.

  • Nurture Systems
    Your nurture systems cover your database and referral network.

    Keep in touch with your past clients and prospects without constant manual effort. 

  • Team Training Systems
    Your team training systems would include your standard operating procedures and FAQs.

    This way, your team knows where to go to find information without constantly asking you questions.

  • Financial Tracking Systems
    Insufficient financial tracking is often the primary source of poor business performance and decision-making.

    You should be able to look at your numbers, know your burn rate, and see your expenses at a glance without pouring over spreadsheets.

    Quick access to your finances helps you make fast and informed business decisions. 

Signs You Need To Fix Your Real Estate Systems

Agents often come to me telling me they already have a system in place. When I press them further, they tell me they have a checklist for the tasks they need to complete.

Checklists are NOT systems.

And they’re certainly not scaleable! Checklists lack sophistication and automation, requiring you to do a lot of manual labor. 

But all of that manual work will eventually lead you to crumble under stress and overwhelm. 

Efficient real estate systems and processes are the backbone of running a successful business. 

But how do you know when your systems need fixing?

Here are 3 signs to look out for:

1. Things Are Falling Through The Cracks

A huge systems red flag is if you’re noticing frequent and recurring mistakes.

Maybe emails aren’t getting responded to, social content isn’t getting posted, or invoices aren’t being sent on time.

These things start out small, but they add up to become big issues. 

Mistakes made because of human error or forgetfulness need to be automated.

It’s time to look into real estate automation tools to seal up the cracks and make sure nothing gets missed. 

2. You Are Constantly Jumping In To Fix Things

How many times a day do your team members message you to ask questions?

If your answer is too many times, it’s time to take a closer look at your systems. 

Frequent interruptions from team members keep you from focusing on high-level tasks as CEO.

3. You basically become the administrator of your team. 

Your productivity drops drastically because every detail of every task comes through you. 

Instead, set up systems and processes that allow your team to be resourceful and help your business run more smoothly.

Ready to step away from being an administrator and become a CEO?

Check out this blog: How Real Estate Team Leaders Can Master Delegation And Step Into Their CEO Shoes

4. Your Business Can’t Run Without You.

The real test of a successful business is if it can run without you. 

A well-structured business should have the right systems and processes in place to function efficiently without you always being around. 

It should be self-sustaining with room to grow and scale.

If you can’t step away without everything falling apart, your systems need some serious work. 

What Should You Include In Your Real Estate Systems? 

There are four major elements of any real estate system.

Whether your goal is to generate leads or train team members, each of your systems needs to have a clear outcome, standard operating procedures, and a connection to your next system.

1. A Clear Outcome – Each of your systems should have one specific goal you want to achieve. 

This clarity helps your processes stay focused and efficient. 

2. Standard Operating Procedures (SOPs) SOPs are the guidelines for any process you must complete in your real estate business. 

Their main goal is to get information out of your brain and into the hands of your team.

This creates consistency and quality throughout all of your services and operations.

3. Automations – Automations are key to handling repetitive tasks and decreasing the chance of human error. 

Anything from sending follow-up emails to updating client records can be automated.

This allows you and your team to focus on more strategic tasks to grow your business. 

4. A Connection to the Next System – Your real estate systems don’t exist in isolation. Everything should be connected. 

For example, after your client generation system captures a lead, it should seamlessly transition into your client nurture system.

This continuous flow and connection will make your business scalable and self-sufficient.

By incorporating these four elements, you’ll create robust real estate systems that drive efficiency, maintain quality, and support sustainable business growth.

A 4-Step Process for Creating Systems

If the idea of creating systems for your real estate business seems overwhelming, think of it this way…

Imagine you’re in a helicopter, looking down at a vast river system. From up high, you see countless rivers twisting, merging, and breaking off again, forming an intricate network that appears incredibly complex.

However, if you zoom in and focus on just one small part of the system – imagine yourself sitting on a riverbank – you’ll see that it’s simply one river flowing in front of you. It’s much easier to understand and navigate when you break it down into smaller, manageable pieces.

Creating systems for your business works the same way.

Instead of trying to tackle the entire system at once, focus on building one piece at a time.

Gradually, as you develop and implement each component, they’ll come together to form a complete, interconnected system that helps your business run smoothly.

To get you started, here is our 4-step process for creating real estate systems:

Step 1: Decide What You Need Systems For

Start with a task audit. What things do you need and want systems for? 

Think of your lowest-value tasks first. 

Are you still manually sending emails to schedule meetings? Or maybe your admin is inputting client information one by one into your CRM?

By auditing your tasks, you’ll be able to see where systems can save you the most time and effort.

Step 2: Go Through the Individual Steps Of The Process

Break down each step of the process you want to systematize. 

What are you currently doing and how are you doing it?

This detailed look will help you see what can be improved or automated.

Now is also a good time to start drafting an SOP for this process. 

Step 3: Eliminate, Automate, Delegate

After you’ve analyzed your process, ask yourself three questions:

  • What can be eliminated?
  • What can be automated?
  • What can be delegated?

If there’s any part of your process that isn’t necessary or doesn’t bring in any real value, eliminate it. 

Then decide what parts need to be automated or delegated. 

Always prioritize automation over delegating. If a piece of tech can do it for you, automate it and save the higher-level tasks for your admin. 

Thinking of hiring your first admin? 

Check out this blog on hiring a real estate administrative assistant: Want To Hire A Real Estate Administrative Assistant? Here’s What You Need To Know

Step 4: Build Your System

Now that you have the final steps of your process, it’s time to build the system itself. 

Create your automations and make sure triggers are in place to notify your team whenever they need to step in. 

Double-check to make sure each step flows smoothly into the next. 

Then, finalize your SOP and make sure your team understands each part of the process.

Remember, it’s easiest to start with only what you need systematized first. Don’t try to build your entire river system in one shot. 

Is Your Real Estate System Successful?

Now that you’ve built your real estate systems and processes, are they successful?

The goal of each system is to create efficiency for you and your team and ultimately allow you to scale. 

If your systems are successful, they should cover these four factors:

Everything Is Connected

Systems don’t live in a silo. 

Each system within your business has a specific outcome, but they should all be working together. 

Everything should be connected. 

Your marketing system should be connected to your nurture system which is connected to your onboarding, contract-to-close, and offboarding systems.

Everything should flow from beginning to end. 

This connection between your systems is how no part of your process is forgotten and allows you to grow. 

It’s Scale-able 

If your goal is to scale your 6-figure business to 7-figures, you need a system that can handle that workload without breaking. 

Ask yourself: If someone dropped a hundred clients on you, what would happen?

Would your systems be able to handle it?

A sign of a good system lies in its scalability. 

Even if you receive a hundred new clients tomorrow, your systems should still be able to operate perfectly. 

If there’s any part that would break under that pressure, that’s what you need to focus on fixing. 

It Leverages Automation

The idea behind creating successful systems is that there should be as little human or manual input as possible. 

This is why you should be leveraging automation wherever you can! 

Automation is key to reducing human error and increasing efficiency. 

As long as you have a team member occasionally checking in to make sure your automations are running properly, they’re very reliable. 

I recommend using an automation tool like Zapier. It uses ‘zaps’ to connect your real estate tools and systems to each other, minimizing the need for manual intervention.

With routine tasks handled automatically, you can focus on more strategic activities that need a personal touch.

It Expands Your Capacity & Reduces Overhead Costs

The more you scale, the more moving parts there are to your real estate processes.

Most agents make the mistake of hiring more people to manage this complexity.

But what if you could build better systems and save instead? 

With the right systems and automations, you can reduce your overhead costs and prevent over-hiring.

A good real estate administrative assistant costs around $30-40/hour. 

It’s more cost-efficient to spend $400/year for Zapier to automate your manual tasks and hire only one admin.

Even if you still hired two admins, they would have significantly more hours to focus on advancing projects instead of getting bogged down by routine tasks.

How much more would be accomplished if you systematized and automated as much as possible in your business?

What kind of projects would you be able to move forward with or complete?

Systems create efficiency and efficiency is key to creating more with less time. 

If you take the time to invest in building a system, the capacity for your output goes up drastically. 

You and your team would gain more time, and you’ll be able to push forward on your goals. 

Pro Tip: When You Build a System, USE IT!

Building a system is just the first step. 

Now, you actually have to USE it. 

Whether it’s checking tasks in Airtable or managing clients in Follow Up Boss, you really have to live in your systems. 

Otherwise, you’ll be back at square one and steps in your processes might be forgotten. 

Get in the habit of checking your systems. At the same time, check in with your team to make sure they understand why the system is important. 

When a team member goes rogue and stops using your systems, they’re just creating more work for someone else. 


It’s up to you to reiterate how following the systems will make their lives easier so you can all maintain efficiency and achieve success. 

When you’re doing everything manually, you’re relying on your own motivation to get things done every day.

And no one is motivated every single day. 

It’s time to stop relying on discipline and start relying on well-oiled systems.

With well-designed and automated systems, you know you can feel good about what’s getting done – even on the days when you need a break. 

When you join our 7-Figure Agent Collective program, we teach you how to leverage a team and proven systems to scale your business to 7-figures.

Are you ready to win back your time by building robust real estate systems and a powerhouse team? 

Click HERE to schedule a call with our team to learn more about how we can help you get there. 

How To Win In Real Estate: What Top Real Estate Agents Are Doing Differently

Have you been struggling to stay afloat with things rapidly changing?

The market is different and there’s no denying it. 

What was a once familiar landscape might now feel like completely foreign territory.

The tactics that used to be your bread and butter are now leaving your pipeline dry and your business struggling to stay afloat.

You’re wondering to yourself…what can I do to stay ahead in this market?

If you want to win in real estate,  you’ve got to shift your approach. The same old-school tactics won’t cut it anymore.

It’s going to take refining your systems, marketing, and team if you want to gain market share. 

Let’s get into exactly what’s changing – and what you need to be focusing on. 👇

The Top Real Estate Agents Are Taking A Larger Slice of the Pie 

In the past, I’ve always said that 20% of agents are doing 80% of transactions. 

However, these days, things are getting even more competitive. Business is already shifting into even fewer hands with 20% of the top 20% taking the lion’s share.

There’s no longer space for agents looking to do the odd deal. The agents that will last are the ones willing to go all in on their business. 

It’s more important than ever to ensure you’re equipped with the right tools and strategies to help you win at real estate and rise to the top.  

Your Decisions Will Propel You Forward or Hold You Back 

Have you ever heard the saying, “If nothing changes, nothing changes?” 

That statement used to be true. Without changing anything, you’d remain firmly in place.

But with the current rate of change, that’s not how things are working.

Now, if nothing changes, you actually move backward. 

You can no longer rely on the old – so making intentional decisions is KEY in determining whether you move forward, remain stagnant, or fall behind. 

Think About Your Business as a Blank Slate

I want you to think about your business as a blank piece of paper.

It doesn’t matter how many years of experience you have, or how well things were working a few years ago. 

What you’re currently doing is no longer getting you results. Wiping the slate clean and being open to a new way of doing business is the only path forward. 

If you are ready to return to the drawing board and start afresh, then keep reading.

Why You Might Be Losing Focus 

You may have already tried to adapt your business, but things still don’t feel like they’re working. 

This could come down to a few main reasons: 

1. You’re trying a strategy just to tick it off a box

I often see this when it comes to social media marketing. Agents will tell me they’ve already “tried” marketing their business on social media.

But then, when I press them further, they’re simply posting to post. Generic Canva quotes and “Just listed, just sold!” posts aren’t a solid strategy.

Whatever strategy you decide to use, you have to bring intentionality to it. Dedicate your time and effort to doing it well!

2. Attempting to mix and match strategies

Similarly, mixing and matching strategies often dilute their effectiveness. Decide to go all-in on one strategy instead of trying to combine it with another. Make sure to give any strategy time and effort before abandoning ship for another. 

3. Shiny object syndrome

Don’t get distracted by shiny objects. Remember that the more you veer away from your chosen main strategy, the more diluted your focus becomes.

For example, if you’ve decided to focus on Instagram, shiny object syndrome could look like wanting to start a YouTube channel the next week, only to be distracted by TikTok the next. 

Fortunately, there is a solution to this problem and it is simplicity. Find one approach that you resonate with and then commit to it. Commit to the learning process and commit to a path of action. 

How To Win In Real Estate: What You Need to Do to Be in the Top Sliver of Agents 

The following strategies will help you navigate the changing market, build a strong foundation for success, and position yourself as a leader in your niche.

Here’s how you’re going to win at real estate and become a top agent.  👇

Top Agents Build the Right-Sized Team

Mega teams are no longer the guarantee of success that they once were. Instead, small, lean teams are now performing best.

A tight-knit lean team allows you to adapt at a moment’s notice. By leveraging systems and automation, you can get more done with fewer people on your team.

Not too small, though! Those who refuse to grow and want to stay solo agents will get left behind. 

The top agents deliver a level of service that’s simply not possible as a one-person show. 

Plus, refusing to delegate puts you on the fast track to realtor burnout.

Top Agents Prioritize Their Marketing 

There’s no way around it.

If you learn how to win at real estate and rise to the top of your market, you have to invest more time, energy, and money into marketing. Period. 

In order to maintain top-of-mind awareness with your ideal clients, you must be consistent and frequent. 

Practically, this looks like allocating at least 60% of your time to marketing and the remaining 40% to delivery. 

Most agents do this backward. They focus all of their time on their clients and marketing becomes an afterthought. But you must flip that ratio if you want to get ahead.

To really stay competitive, I’d even recommend bringing on a team lead who spends 80-90% of their time on marketing.

Organic Marketing Matters Most 

Paid traffic isn’t what it used to be. You can’t pay your way to success anymore through ads. 

You need to first have a solid foundation of what works organically before amplifying your efforts with ads. 

Organic social media is also no longer optional in this day and age where people no longer convert off websites. 

Social media is where conversion happens, so make sure you’re prioritizing it. 

Marketing Has to Feel Real 

In a world of technology and AI, the ability to connect on a human level has become invaluable

Perfectly produced content does not drive connection. Neither does generic outsourced content from a real estate marketing company that doesn’t know your clients.

There’s no need to hide behind Canva graphics or highly scripted videos when people want to see YOU!

The Top Agents Market Their System, Not Themselves 

If you really want to hit that 7-figure mark, you must shift the focus from yourself to your system. Marketing yourself as the magical solution is simply not sustainable.

If YOUR magic is the reason your clients get results, what happens when someone from your team works with them instead?

Instead, focus on establishing what makes your system unique and effective. 

Sell the benefits and proven results of your process, providing clients with tangible evidence that your system is the key to their success, regardless of which team member they work with.

The Top Agents Consider Themselves Marketers First, Not Agents 

When I started out, I wasn’t the most experienced or skilled realtor in town, but I quickly surpassed veterans who’d been in the game for decades. 

How? By being an unbeatable marketer.

If you want to thrive, you’ve got to prioritize marketing above all else. Invest your time, money, and energy into learning and implementing killer marketing strategies.

Remember, great realtors don’t become millionaires – great marketers do.

Top Agents Take Responsibility for Nurturing Their Leads

I often hear from real estate agents that, “Online leads are crap!”

But here’s the deal. 👇

Rather than blaming your leads, it’s up to YOU to take responsibility to nurture them. 

Regardless of the origin platform, every single lead requires you to take them from cold → hot.

It’s up to you to bridge the gap and help turn them from strangers to clients. 

➡️ READ: Real Estate Sales Funnel: 9 Things Every Agent Should Include To Convert Prospects Into Clients

Top Agents Do Not Rely on Their Network 

Relying solely on repeat and referral business from your existing network will eventually stunt your growth. With buying cycles extending to 8.5 years and a 20% churn rate, you can’t depend on the same level of repeat business as before.

To break through this ceiling, top agents focus on generating new leads and growing their audience.

While your current network is valuable, exclusively relying on it is not a sustainable long-term strategy. Instead, leverage digital marketing to attract new people and expand your sphere of influence.


The current market is undoubtedly different, but upgrading your approach is possible.

By focusing on building the right-sized team, prioritizing marketing, leveraging organic strategies, nurturing leads, and expanding your network, you can learn how to win in real estate and thrive – no matter what the market’s doing externally

Remember, the most successful agents are those who are willing to learn, grow, and evolve alongside the industry.

If you’re ready to become the go-to agent in your market, The Listings Lab can get you there.

Apply here to book a call with our team and learn how we can help you elevate your marketing and business!