Jess Lenouvel

How Erin Tripled Their Business With The Listings Lab

Imagine if you could triple your real estate business in just one year?

Or invest in mentorship and achieve a 57x ROI?!

Well, one of our members from The Listings Lab did exactly that. 

Today, I want you to meet Erin Brotherman. 

In today’s blog post, I’m diving into her top lessons and takeaways since joining the program so you can learn from – and replicate – her success.

Ready to learn how Erin did it?

Keep reading to find out. 👇🏼

Erin’s Journey: From Corporate To Real Estate 

Erin’s path in real estate isn’t your typical one, which makes it even more special. She had a stint in real estate in her twenties, then spent a decade in corporate America before circling back to real estate in her forties. 

But despite Erin working in marketing for a corporate tech company, she was still struggling to market her real estate business.

Instead, she was relying on her brokerage to get leads for her. Which means she was splitting her commissions and losing out on nearly 50% of her earnings.

She knew there had to be a better way.

If she could learn how to sign her own clients, Erin realized she could make more money working fewer hours. 

The Turning Point: Discovering The Listings Lab

It was then that Erin stumbled upon The Listings Lab through a podcast I was on, and something clicked. She did her homework, read through all of our member success stories, and decided to take the plunge.

And that decision was the start of a whole new chapter in Erin’s business. 

Here are some of her biggest takeaways and things she implemented in The Listings Lab to triple her business in just one year. 👇🏼

She Cultivated An Investor’s Mindset

One of the things I love about Erin’s story is that she’s an action-taker. Some people hum and haw about whether or not to invest – but Erin made a decision right away.

From the start, she’d always seen the importance of investing in herself and her business. 

Instead of seeing all of her commissions as personal income, she viewed them as business revenue. She properly separated business and personal income (and even opened a separate account exclusively for reinvesting in her business!). 

By seeing herself as an entrepreneur rather than an agent, Erin laid the groundwork for her transformation.  

READ: 10x Thinking For Agents: How To 10x Your Mindset To 10x Your Growth

She Dug Deep Into Her Clients’ Pain Points

After getting divorced at 31, Erin found herself struggling in the dating world.

She kept choosing the wrong people and realized she needed to learn how to date well. That’s when she started following relationship experts on podcasts and Instagram.

These experts were showing up in a way that resonated with Erin – they understood her pain points, her frustrations, and where she wanted to be. They offered a clear process to get from point A to point B.

And because of that, Erin had an “aha” moment. She realized she wanted to show up in real estate just like the relationship experts:

  • Tapping into her clients’ psychology and pain points
  • Understanding their needs
  • And guiding them through the process with clarity

Consuming their content had driven her to invest in their solutions.

And if she could effectively tap into her clients’ emotions and motivations in the same way, She knew they’d be more likely to trust her and invest in her real estate expertise.

With this eagerness to learn more about buyer psychology, Erin committed fully to the program. She diligently showed up to the calls and implemented what she learned in The Listings Lab. 

She realized it’s not just about asking, “So, why do you want to move?”

It’s about digging deeper. It’s about understanding the emotional drivers behind a decision.

Are they upsizing because they’re tripping over toys and fighting for bathroom time every morning? Are they downsizing because their empty nest feels too big and lonely? 

These are the real reasons people move, and when you tap into that, you become more than just an agent. You become the expert they trust to guide them through one of life’s biggest transitions. 

She Said Goodbye To Icky Tactics

One thing that Erin loved and fully embraced in The Listings Lab was the shift away from old-school, uncomfortable marketing tactics. She’d always felt resistance towards things like cold calling or forced check-ins with past clients. They always left her feeling icky. 

In The Listings Lab, she learned a new approach. She began to nurture her sphere of influence through social media and valuable content.  

And you know what? People took notice. 

Ideal clients were watching her content, connecting with her message, and when they were ready to make a move, guess who they called? You guessed it – Erin.

Erin truly resonated with our approach which allowed her to show up authentically and connect with her dream clients.

She no longer felt fake, and because of that, she was much more consistent with her marketing. 

Her content actually helped people, whether they were ready to buy or sell or not. She became a valuable resource, not just another agent spamming people’s feeds with “Just Listed, Just Sold” posts.

She Leaned Into Her Unfair Advantage

One reason people often hesitate to invest in coaching programs is the fear of becoming something they’re not. They’re tired of cookie-cutter advice and tactics.

That’s where The Listings Lab stands out. We have a proven system, but our blueprint results in a uniquely different business for everyone.

The Listings Lab helped Erin lean into her strengths, finding a way to make real estate work for her personality and lifestyle. This is what we call your “unfair advantage” – the unique combination of skills, experiences, and traits that make you, well, you.

For Erin, it was her ability to build genuine relationships and her passion for helping people. With our strategies and support, she learned how to effectively leverage these strengths in her marketing and client interactions. The result? It paid off big time.

Our program isn’t about transforming you into someone else. It’s about amplifying who you already are and using that to create a thriving real estate business.

READ: How To Craft a Real Estate Value Proposition That Secures Listings

The Results

But here’s the real kicker: Erin’s investment in The Listings Lab paid off big time.

She tripled her business in a year.

Let that sink in for a second. Tripled.

And she saw a 57 times ROI on her investment in the first year alone. Now, you might be thinking, “Sure, but that was probably just a one-time thing, right?” Wrong. Erin’s on track to beat her 2023 numbers in 2024.

It hasn’t been a cakewalk – she’s had to work for it. But the point is, her success isn’t a fluke. It’s sustainable growth.

Success Beyond The Numbers

But here’s what I love most about Erin’s story.

Her wins are about so much more than just the numbers.

Throughout her time in The Listings Lab, Erin’s redefined what success in real estate means to her. 

While the monetary achievements are nice, Erin’s most grateful for the fact that’s she’s been able to build a business that feels GOOD from the inside out. 

Being true to herself, feeling good about what she does every day, and making time for her interests and hobbies outside of real estate? Those are her markers of success.

She feels like she’s playing in her business instead of grinding away at it.

This is huge.

I mean, how many of us got into real estate dreaming of freedom and flexibility, only to find ourselves chained to our phones 24/7?

Erin’s story shows it doesn’t have to be that way. You can build a successful business AND still have a life.

Key Takeaways From Erin’s Journey

So, what can we learn from Erin’s journey? A few key things:

  1. Invest in your business like it’s a real business (because it is).
  2. Get to know your clients’ pain points like the back of your hand.
  3. Ditch the tactics that make you feel icky and focus on providing real value.
  4. Don’t just acquire knowledge – put it into action.
  5. Define success on your own terms.
  6. Embrace authentic marketing that feels good to you.

Are You Ready to Write Your Own Success Story?

Erin’s story shows that you can build a thriving real estate business without sacrificing your authenticity or work-life balance. It’s not about hustling 24/7 or becoming someone you’re not. It’s about finding a way to do real estate that feels right for you.

As Erin says, “For once, I don’t feel gross about marketing my business. I feel great about it.”

And isn’t that what we’re all after? Feeling great about what we do, making a good living, and actually enjoying our day-to-day? That’s the real dream. And with the right approach, it’s totally achievable.

So, what’s your next move? Are you ready to transform your real estate business like Erin did? The opportunity is there if you’re willing to seize it. 

If Erin’s story resonates with you…

If you’re tired of the old-school tactics that leave you feeling icky…

If you’re ready to build a business that aligns with who you are…

Then it might be time to take the next step.

Book a call with our team to see if The Listings Lab is right for you.

We’ll talk about where you are now, where you want to be, and how we can help you get there. No pressure, no hard sell. Just an honest conversation about whether our program might help you achieve the same kind of breakthrough that Erin did in her business.

Apply here to book your free call or check out more of our member success stories here.

10 Key Mindset Differences Between 6- And 7-Figure Real Estate Agents

Feeling stuck at 6-figures?

When you hit a plateau in business, you might think adopting a shiny new strategy is the way to push past it. 

But the real truth? 

Business strategy is everywhere.

It’s in books, podcasts, Facebook – everywhere.

Information isn’t what’s holding you back. 

Instead, it’s your mindset. 

The way you show up and think about your business is probably what’s actually keeping you stuck. 

If you want to scale to 7-figures, it’s time to start thinking like a 7-figure agent. 

Let’s explore the mindset shifts 6-figure agents need to adopt to break into 7-figure territory. 👇🏼

7-Figure Agents Love Business (Not Just Real Estate) 

Most 6-figure agents think of themselves as self-employed. 

They love the flexibility of their job, their salary, and the ins and outs of selling real estate. 

But they don’t necessarily think of themselves as an entrepreneur. 

When you’re serious about hitting 7-figures, being excellent at real estate isn’t enough. 

You have to fall in love with the business of real estate as well. 

It’s fine to be self-employed.

But you can’t keep the same self-employed mentality if you want to scale. 

There are limits to what you can do as a self-employed agent.

And for 6-figure agents, those limits become painfully apparent when they need to focus on foundational business-building activities. 

Most 6-figure real estate agents hate the systems, the tracking, the hiring, the content creating…

They hate all the things that they need to be doing to scale. 

So they simply don’t do it.

You have to develop a relationship with the business side of things to have a real business.

You have to be working ON the business, rather than IN the business.

Otherwise, you’ll always have just a successful 6-figure hustle. 

7-Figure Agents Upgrade Their Business Model

One of the biggest mindset misconceptions agents have when going from 6- to 7-figures is they just have to do more of what they’re already doing. 

It’s easy to believe that you just have to get more leads, put in more hours, and really double down on your current strategies. 

But that’s simply not how it works. 

What gets you to 6-figures won’t get you to 7-figures. 

To make that jump, you have to break your current system and rethink your entire approach. 

It might feel like you’re starting from scratch, but think of it like a video game:

You’ve mastered the first stage, but the rules and challenges shift when you level up.

Reaching 7-figures takes a whole new business model, different skills, and a fresh mindset. 

You have to evolve your approach, or you’ll stay stuck where you are. 

7-Figure Agents Have An Investor’s Mindset

As a business owner, you must know how to manage your resources. 

Most importantly, this includes managing your money. 

To make the jump from 6- to 7-figures, you need to start handling your resources with an investor’s mindset. 

For example, most 6-figure agents use 100% of their commissions as their personal income. 

Then, they use the money to upgrade their lifestyle – a new car, a bigger house, fancier vacations, etc. 

This is known as lifestyle creep. 

But, as soon as you decide you’re going to scale your business, you have to separate your business money from your personal money. 

Start paying yourself a salary from your commission and allocate the rest to reinvest in your business.

You can’t allow lifestyle creep to become your new normal. 

Instead, when you make the decision to scale, you have to pull your lifestyle back a bit. 

This can be difficult – especially when you don’t come from a background of tremendous wealth.

It can be tempting to spend money on things that make you *look* like you’re successful. 

But you have to shift your mindset from just looking wealthy to building your wealth. 

This way, you have the resources to put money into upgrading your systems, tools, and support that you need to scale your business to 7-figures. 

7-Figure Agents Embrace Long-Term Thinking

For 6-figure agents, everything feels urgent.

Your days are spent putting out fires and panicking about where your next client is coming from. 

You’re constantly juggling tasks instead of making real progress towards long-term goals. 

Because of this, you resist working ON your business because you’re worried it will take away from bringing in new clients. 

Then, you’re stuck in a never-ending cycle. 👇 

You spend all your time doing business, leaving no time for the business itself. 

But when you neglect working on your business, you have to hustle so much harder just to get more deals.

This leads to poor, short-term business decisions just to stay afloat.

7-figure agents, on the other hand, understand the value of long-term thinking. 

They have a plan and they understand the value of sticking to it. 

For example, long-term thinking might mean turning down a client in the short-term because they’re not an ideal fit. 

This way, you’re free to use that time to work on your marketing and attract more perfect-fit clients. 

Meanwhile, an agent only thinking in the short-term would take on a non-ideal client because they need the money – even if it goes against their ultimate vision. 

To reach 7-figures, you have to start thinking proactively. 

Stop guessing and take intentional steps to scale your business. 

7-Figure Agents Confront Their Money Mindsets

Everyone has a financial “set point” – a level of wealth that feels safe and comfortable.

When running a business, it’s natural to want to increase this set point.

However, many entrepreneurs find themselves unconsciously resisting growth due to deeply ingrained beliefs about money and success.

These beliefs, or “money stories,” often manifest as seemingly logical thoughts.

For example, “I’m comfortable at 6-figures because 7-figures will mean less time with my family.” While these stories feel true, they’re usually not grounded in reality and can limit your potential for growth.

To reach higher levels of success, you must challenge these limiting beliefs.

Many people associate growth with increased stress and settle for their comfort zone.

However, scaling a business isn’t about working harder or doing more of the same. Instead, it involves adopting new strategies, mindsets, and habits that allow you to scale with ease.

Confronting your money stories is the first step in breaking through self-imposed limitations.

By examining and questioning these beliefs, you open yourself up to new possibilities and allow your business to grow beyond your current comfort zone.

7-Figure Agents Don’t See Themselves As A Victim Of Their Business

Many 6-figure earners find themselves trapped in a cycle of blame, pointing to external factors like market conditions or fierce competition to explain their income plateau.

This tendency to deflect responsibility often stems from seeing oneself as powerless against external factors, rather than as the primary driver of their business success.

However, the hard truth is that you’re only a victim of your own past decisions.

Even if the market shifts or interest rates rise, it’s the choices you make that determine the outcome. 

Did you plan ahead? 

Did you prioritize marketing or tax planning? 

If not, the responsibility lies with YOU.

7-figure earners understand this. 

They don’t waste time pointing fingers. They focus on their next move. 

Every decision, good or bad, can be corrected. 

What matters is owning those choices and making better ones moving forward.

7-Figure Agents Surround Themselves With Other Top Performers

When you decide you want more from your business, you have to stop doing what everyone else is doing. 

You can’t just sit back and be content staying around average agents and expect to make it to 7-figures. 

It’s easy to get stuck in the same mediocre conversations, complaints, and habits.

But the more time you spend around average agents, the harder it will be to pull yourself out of that mentality. 

Instead, you have to break away from the pack. 

7-figure agents know they need to surround themselves with innovators. 

Even if that means looking outside of the real estate industry for inspiration. Who can you connect with who’s pushing boundaries and thinking differently?

The most successful agents understand that innovation won’t come from staying in your comfort zone. 

7-Figure Agents Take Action Before They’re Ready.

You’re never going to feel ready to level up to 7-figures. 

But just remember: There’s always going to be something that holds you back. 

Maybe you’re waiting for more money in the bank or more consistency in your business.

Being ready isn’t a feeling. It’s a decision

You have to start implementing the mindset and actions needed for success, even before you feel prepared. 

It’s not about waiting to reach a certain milestone. 

It’s about creating 7-figure habits and patterns now.

Taking action before you’re ready is what sets the stage for your business to evolve from 6-figures to 7-figures.

Because if you keep waiting until the “perfect moment,” you’ll likely be too late. 

7-Figure Agents Follow A Plan Rather Than Searching For Quick Solutions

As you work to scale your business to 7-figures, it’s easy to be lured by “quick solutions.” 

A common example I see is agents deciding to hire a business partner. 

Feeling overwhelmed by the responsibilities of being a CEO, they think a partner will lighten the load.

But here’s the problem: without clear roles, this often fails. Instead of gaining support, both end up doing the same tasks, which doesn’t push the business forward.

What you really need is to strategically fill the gaps in your team. 

Invest in mentorship to learn how to build out your team in a way that addresses specific needs, allowing you to focus on the high-level work required for 7-figure growth. 

Connect with other high-level entrepreneurs so that being a CEO feels less lonely instead of trying to abdicate your responsibilities to a business partner.

By creating and executing a plan, you’ll prepare your business to handle the demands of scaling without relying on shortcuts or hoping things fall into place.

7-Figure Agents Don’t Subconsciously Block Business

Most 6-figure agents think their biggest problem is leads. 

But ask yourself, if someone dropped 50 new clients on you today, could you service them at the level you want?

Without the right tools, systems, and foundations in place, the answer is probably no. 

You’d end up making rushed hiring and business decisions, leading to burnout.

That’s the key difference between the 6-figure and the 7-figure mindset. 

A 6-figure agent may be constantly focused on finding new leads but lack the foundation to handle them.

Because of that, they’re subconsciously blocking their business from growing. 

Instead of only focusing on lead generation, you have to also be working on your foundations, systems, and team so you can confidently handle the growth you’re aiming for. 

You might think marketing is the problem, but a 7-figure agent recognizes that it’s not the only issue. 

If your business isn’t prepared to deliver, you’ll subconsciously block new income and clients from coming in. 

You’ll keep saying you want more leads, but deep down you know you’re not ready to handle them.

To scale to 7-figures, you need to look at all the parts of your business as a whole, not just chase the revenue more leads can bring.


Making the shift from a 6-figure to a 7-figure real estate business isn’t about working harder.

It’s about radically shifting your mindset and being willing to operate differently.

When you focus on long-term growth, embrace the business side of real estate, and set up a solid foundation, scaling becomes the natural next step. 

At The Listing Lab, we help agents set up the tools and systems they need to scale their business. 

We teach them how to set up an effective marketing foundation, gain a steady stream of high-quality leads, and put systems in place to consistently grow their revenue to 7-figures. 

So, stop letting your limiting beliefs hold you back!

Click here to apply to join The Listings Lab and start your journey to 7-figures and beyond.

Stop Chasing ‘More Leads’ And Do These 2 Things Instead

“I need more leads!”

It’s a cry for help I hear from estate agents everywhere.

But here’s the hard truth: simply getting more leads won’t fix your business. In fact, it might even break it.

Without the right foundation, more leads will only waste your time and drain your resources.

I’ve seen it happen far too many times, and I’ve experienced it myself – constantly chasing leads at the expense of everything else in my life.

So, what are the two crucial elements your real estate business actually needs to turn leads into sustainable success?

Keep reading to find out. 👇🏼

A Laser-Focused Niche

You might think that you need to cast a wider net if you want more leads.

But you’re wrong.

When you try to speak to everyone, you end up speaking to no one. More leads won’t help if they’re not the *right* leads.

The riches are in the niches, and here’s why:

Specializing allows you to create messaging that truly resonates with your ideal clients. When you niche down, you’re not just accumulating more leads – you’re attracting better, more qualified leads.

Think about it. If you’re an empty-nester looking to downsize, who are you more likely to call?

Agent A, who markets to everyone, or Agent B, who specializes in helping people in your exact situation navigate this significant life transition? Even if Agent A has ten times the leads, Agent B will win the client every time.

Without a niche, more leads just mean more time wasted on prospects who aren’t a good fit. You’ll burn out chasing quantity over quality, and your business will suffer.

A Strategic Marketing Plan

“But I already do marketing!” I hear you say. “I’ve got my face on bus benches and everything!”

Here’s the truth: That’s a billboard, not a marketing strategy. More leads won’t help if your marketing doesn’t guide them through the psychological journey from prospect to client.

A real marketing strategy isn’t about bombarding everyone with your message. It’s about understanding the nuanced steps that take someone from awareness to action. 

Without a proper framework, more leads won’t help – they’ll just slip away. Think about it: can you really address your ideal client’s pain points? Can you explain their problem better than they can? Do you know how to show them what happens if they don’t act? These are crucial skills.

And it doesn’t stop there. You need to share your story, showcase what makes your process unique, and back it all up with proof that you get results.

If you can’t do these things, why would anyone choose you over the countless other agents out there?

The truth is, more leads are useless if you don’t know how to nurture them. You’ve got to handle objections before they come up, paint a clear picture of the future, and guide your prospects to take action.

Collecting names from a lead form is no use if you neglect these key steps. You’ll just be throwing your marketing budget out the window.

Remember: it’s not about how many leads you have. It’s about how well you can guide them from stranger to client.

The Hidden Culprit: Inadequate Systems and Team

Now, let’s address a scenario that catches many agents off guard. 

Suppose you do get more leads – then what? Without robust systems and a capable team, that influx of leads can quickly become overwhelming.

I’ve seen it happen. Agents turn on the lead faucet, and suddenly they’re drowning. 

More leads won’t fix your business if your foundation can’t support growth. You need scalable systems and a team that can turn those leads into clients efficiently and consistently.

The Bottom Line

Simply focusing on “more leads” is a common trap agents fall into. It can feel like the answer to all your problems. But without a niche focus and a marketing strategy rooted in client psychology (backed by the right systems and team), those leads are just numbers in your CRM.

More leads won’t fix your business if:

  • You’re trying to be everything to everyone instead of an expert to a few
  • Your marketing doesn’t understand the psychological journey from stranger to client
  • Your systems and team can’t handle growth

It’s time to shift your focus from quantity to quality. Instead of endlessly chasing more leads, focus on becoming the go-to expert for your ideal clients. Create a marketing strategy that understands and nurtures leads effectively. Build the systems and team to support your growth.

Do this, and you won’t just have more leads – you’ll have better leads, a higher close rate, and the freedom to actually enjoy the business you’ve built. 

This is exactly what we help you do in The Listings Lab. We help you find your perfect niche, create a marketing plan that wins clients, and build systems for growth.

Ready to elevate your real estate business? Apply now and book a call with our team to see if The Listings Lab program is right for you.

Let’s transform your lead generation from endless chasing to effortless attraction. 

Building Wealth Through Real Estate: Common Mistakes and Where to Invest

Picture this: You’ve been steadily growing your real estate business. 

You’ve even got a decent stream of income now – maybe for the first time in a while. 

But somehow, you’re still living paycheck to paycheck. 

You’re probably thinking, how? 

How can I be pulling in a decent income and still be so stressed about money?

Sound familiar?

It all comes down to how you think about money. 

Many agents focus on hustling to earn more, but overlook building real, lasting wealth. 

In this blog post, I’m going to show you how to stop that cycle – once and for all.  

I’ll go over the common money mistakes that are holding you back and my personal tips for how to invest to build wealth through real estate. 

Let’s get to it! 

Examining Our Childhood Money Stories

First, let’s examine why you view money the way you do. 

Many of our beliefs surrounding money were deeply ingrained in us from childhood. 

It doesn’t matter if you came from money or if money was always tight. 

Maybe your family went back and forth between periods where things were good and periods where they were watching every penny. 

Either way, those experiences stick with you. 

And now, the thoughts and emotions from those memories often shape our financial decisions – without us even realizing it. 

It’s easy to let old patterns repeat themselves when we don’t understand our money stories. 

For example, if you grew up in a household where money was always tight, you might have witnessed your parents struggling. 

Maybe they were constantly arguing over bills or stressed about making ends meet. 

As an adult, this might show up as hoarding money – afraid to invest or spend because you fear experiencing those tough times again. 

Or maybe, the opposite happens.

Maybe you hated the feeling of never having enough as a child, so now you’ve swung to the other side of the pendulum. You spend money as soon as you get it to avoid that feeling of scarcity.

Either way, recognizing these types of patterns is the first step to building wealth. 

The Real Estate Lifestyle Trap

I got my real estate license when I was just 21 years old. 

When my first commission check of $30,000 came in, I spent it exactly how you would think a 21-year-old would. 

In my young life, I had never had that much money go into my bank account at one time. 

And it was amazing how fast I spent it. 

As quickly as the money hit my bank account, it was gone. 

I fell into the common pattern of lifestyle creep, which is particularly common among real estate agents. I call it the real estate lifestyle trap.

Lifestyle creep happens when you start earning more and start upgrading your lifestyle to match your income. 

The things that you used to consider luxuries are now your new necessities.  

For me, it was designer shoes. 

For you, it could be refreshing your entire wardrobe, upgrading to a fancier car, or buying a bigger house.

Remember this: It’s easy to fall into the trap of overspending, but the real win is creating a sustainable financial future for yourself.

Don’t spend more than you have and be sure to always to keep room in your business savings.

Why Money Management Matters as a Real Estate Agent

In real estate, the reality is that not every year is going to be your best year. 

Markets can change, and suddenly money might be tighter than usual. 

When this happens, agents often start cutting back on their business expenses instead of their lifestyle. This is the wrong move. 

They’ve allowed the lifestyle creep to become their new normal. 

And suddenly, the money that could have been reinvested into their business to get things back on track has disappeared. 

This is what happens when agents design their spending plans based on their best year ever. 

Just because you had a good year once or twice, doesn’t mean you can keep up that same level of spending indefinitely. 

Without proper money management, you’ll have nothing left to invest in the business for future growth. 

And that’s where the serious problems begin. 

When you prioritize lifestyle upgrades over reinvesting in your business, you stunt its potential. 

To build long-term wealth through real estate, you need to manage your money wisely. 

Find the balance between living the lifestyle you want while making sure you have the resources to invest in your business’s growth.

5 Mistakes Agents Are Making With Their Money 

Even the most experienced real estate agents make money mistakes that hold their business back.

Whether it’s overspending or letting outside influences affect your decisions, these can seriously hurt your long-term success. 

Let’s take a look at 5 of the most common mistakes I see agents making with their money.

Recognizing them can help you build a solid foundation of wealth for your financial future.

Mistake #1: Not Separating Personal & Business Money 

The difference between being a real estate agent and being a real estate business?

A real estate business deposits all business revenue into a business account and then from that, pays themselves a salary.

As a real estate business, your business money is NOT your personal money. 

If your commissions equal your entire income, you will always take from your business. 

Rather than investing back into the business, you see all income as your personal income – and fall victim to lifestyle creep. 

To solve this, you HAVE to separate your money – one business account and personal account.

The most successful entrepreneurs put their business growth FIRST and their lifestyle upgrades SECOND. 

They cut back in their personal lives to make sure their business stays safe.

Not the other way around. 

Mistake #2: Caring Too Much About “Looking” Successful 

Many real estate agents feel the need to look the part of success.

They spend more money than they should on luxury cars and designer brands.

All so everyone around them knows how successful they are. 

This is different from simply enjoying wearing fun or fancy clothes. 

It’s not a reflection of any personal values. 

It’s simply driven by the desire for the approval of others.

But always trying to impress others drains your money fast. 

Instead of chasing appearances, focus on building money management skills that create a solid financial foundation. 

Remember: True success isn’t about how others see you — it’s about how secure and confident you feel in your future.

Mistake #3: Letting Their Partner Influence Business Finances

Whether you’re married or not, your partner has no say in how you spend in your business.

This comes back to the importance of separating your business money and personal money. 

It’s common for agents to let their spouses or partners weigh in on big financial decisions. 

However, unless they’re a licensed realtor and your business partner, their opinion doesn’t matter. 

Your business is YOUR business. 

The decisions you make in it are crucial for your success, how you scale, build your brand, and create the legacy you want for your future. 

Mistake #4: Recklessly Spending Without Strategy

Many agents spend irresponsibly.

Take marketing, for example. There are agents who pour tons of money into things like postcards and simply hope for the best. 

They might land one deal out of it and call it a success – even if they just break even. 

But breaking even isn’t enough. 

If you’ve been sending postcards consistently for 12 years and have gotten 27 deals out of it, the ROI just doesn’t add up. You could easily 25x that with digital marketing. 

Without a clear strategy, these random investments won’t build lasting wealth. 

The goal of your business spending should always be to see at least a 10x return – not to just cover the cost you spent.

So, the next time you have to make a big financial decision, ask yourself, “Is this the most effective way to scale my business? Will this 10x my ROI?”

You can have all the things you want in your personal life if you’re strategic about it. 

You have to be willing to do the same in your business. 

Mistake #5: Not Knowing Your Financial Set Point

Everyone has a set point in their bank account that makes them feel comfortable. 

When you dip below it, you start to get uncomfortable and hustle and save to reach that point again. 

But when you’re above it, it can trigger unconscious spending and bring you back down. 

Though it’s typically not something you actively think about, your set point affects your spending and saving habits. 

The key is to know what that number is and how it impacts your behavior. 

As business owners, your goal is to gradually raise your set point over time. 

The key to scaling your business is increasing your minimum standards. 

Where to Invest to Build Wealth

Just like managing your business finances, investing requires a clear strategy.

But before selecting what kind of investment to make, you need to know your goals. 

Ask yourself:

  • What are my personal goals?
  • Where do I see myself in a few years?
  • Do I want to continue working or aim for early retirement?

Not every investment will align with where you want to be.

Once you’re clear on your goals, then decide what investments will be the best options to help you build your wealth and reach your vision. 

Here are 4 of my personal favorite investment options:

Passive Investments

When most people think of passive investing, they think of investing in real estate.

But let me tell you…

Investing in real estate is not passive. 😅

Personally, being a residential landlord and receiving late-night maintenance calls is not my idea of how passive investing should feel.

I consider passive investments things that generate income without your constant involvement. 

Think REITs (Real Estate Investment Trusts) or investment funds – things that give you steady returns without your active participation. 

With these, you can enjoy the benefits of investing without sacrificing your time and peace of mind.

Skills 

Investing in yourself is one of the most valuable choices you can make.

Skills are assets that no one can take away from you.

Even if markets crash or life throws unexpected challenges, your skills are what keep you prepared.

Whether it’s sales, marketing, or leadership, developing your abilities gives you the resilience to rebuild, no matter what happens.

Your Audience

Your audience is one of your biggest assets.

You need to be properly nurturing them and guiding them through your funnel. 

And I don’t just mean your followers on social media. 

Social media is rented land. You never know when your account could randomly be deactivated.

Instead, consider investing in your email lists and your client database

These are audiences that you own, and they can never be taken from you. 

“Boring” Businesses

Don’t overlook investing in simple, essential businesses. 

Things like self-storage, laundromats, trailer parks, and even vending machines aren’t exactly fun and exciting. 

But they are necessary and needed and can generate consistent income. 

Plus, they don’t need much oversight, which is great for low-maintenance returns. 

Bottom Line: Your Real Estate Business Doesn’t Exist Just To Fund Your Lifestyle

Your real estate business isn’t here just to fund your lifestyle. 

If you keep using commission checks to buy new clothes, cars, or designer brands, you’ll always be stuck in the same cycle. 

You’ll be working forever with no real wealth to show for it. 

Your real estate business can be the vehicle for everything else that you want to do – including building long-term wealth – if you’re strategic. 

The key is managing your income wisely and invest it into areas that will produce long-term growth. 

NOT spend it on short-term luxuries.

Sacrificing your lifestyle now can set you up for bigger rewards later. 

It all comes down to making smart choices with your money. 


If you focus on strategically managing your money and investing properly for your real estate business, you’ll set yourself up for building wealth and financial freedom.

So, the real question is: do you want to look wealthy today, or do you want to be wealthy in the future?

The choice is yours.

At The Listings Lab, we can help you learn the skills you need to market your business, land consistent deals, and grow your income to 7 figures. 

Are you ready to have your real estate business be the start of your wealth journey? 

Click here to book a FREE call with our team and take the first step towards building wealth and creating lasting financial freedom.

7 Critical Mistakes Agents Make That Are Costing Them Business

Are you sabotaging your real estate career without even realizing it?

If you’re like most agents, the answer is most likely a resounding “yes.”

I’ve identified 7 critical mistakes that are costing agents serious money and stunting their growth, and I’m covering them in this post.

These aren’t your run-of-the-mill “don’t forget to follow up” tips. Instead, I’m talking about deep-rooted issues that are holding your business back from reaching its full potential. From outdated marketing tactics to misguided strategies,  these mistakes are what separate the top performers from those struggling to make ends meet.

But here’s the good news: once you’re aware of these pitfalls, you can avoid them.

I’m going to break down each of these mistakes for you. By the end of this, you’ll have a clear picture of what you might be doing wrong and how to fix it.

Let’s get into it and start turning things around. 👇🏼

1. Learning Marketing From Other Agents Instead of Experts

99% of the time, when someone tells me “Social media doesn’t work for me!” I look at their page and can tell in 0.2 seconds that they’re just copying other agents.

I understand why people do this. They’re new and overwhelmed, so instead of learning marketing skills, they simply look at what other people are doing online.

Here’s the thing…

Just because someone may appear to be killing it on social media, doesn’t necessarily mean they’re bringing in real business. 

Let me tell you a quick story so you can see what I mean.

I had someone in the Listings Lab who was doing really well. She was getting 2-3 deals/month from organic marketing and building up some serious momentum!

But then all of a sudden, she completely switched her strategy. Instead of implementing The Listings Lab’s curriculum, she returned to do more ‘traditional’ real estate marketing – posting a lot of “just listed, just sold” and sales-focused posts. 

And all of her results tanked. 

She joined a coaching call, and we asked her why she’d changed her strategy.

She revealed she saw a real estate team in her area doing 100 deals a year, so she began copying what they were doing.

After hearing this, I decided to do a bit of digging.

Upon a quick glance, I noticed a few things.

1) This team had a LOT of followers so they appeared successful – but most of their following was actually bots or ‘ghost’ followers. It’s clear they’d bought these followers rather than earning them.

2) There was no indication that these deals were coming from social media. In fact, it was pretty obvious they were coming from referrals and this team’s reputation. They were a multigenerational team that had been building a database for 60 years across 3 generations!

No wonder they were getting so much business, despite a lackluster social media strategy.

The next time you’re tempted to copy another agent’s marketing, ask yourself: “Do I really know the full story behind their success?” Chances are, you don’t.

Instead of trying to replicate what you think is working for someone else, learn the skills to confidently build your own marketing strategy. 

2. Treating Social Media Like a Billboard

Many agents still operate with this old-school mentality of attention equals business. They treat their social media like a billboard, thinking that if they boost a post and get eyeballs on it, it will automatically translate to business.

Here’s the harsh truth: You could boost a picture of your left thumb and get a ton of views, but it doesn’t mean it’s going to turn into anything. 

In today’s saturated market, simply showing up and posting “just listed, just sold” content isn’t enough.

Back when I was selling real estate in Toronto, I was one of 70,000 agents in my market.

With the sheer number of agents out there today, what worked five or ten years ago simply doesn’t cut it today.

Especially when you consider the fact that you’re not just competing with other agents for attention. You’re competing against every other advertisement and content creator that is grabbing their attention, no matter the industry.

You’re vying for attention in the very, very saturated place, which is people’s brains. If you’re still using the billboard approach, you’re not giving your business a fair shot at success. 

3. Giving In To The Sunk Cost Fallacy

The sunk cost fallacy refers to the resistance you feel to let something go simply because you’ve spent a lot of time on it. 

And it is SO prevalent in real estate, especially when it comes to marketing.

You’d be shocked at how often I hear something along the lines of:

“Well, this marketing strategy isn’t really working for me, but I’ve already spent so much time and money on it…I might as well continue to work on it a little longer so I can get something from my efforts.”

Let’s take postcards as an example. I’ve seen agents pour thousands of dollars into postcard campaigns month after month, even when they’re not seeing results. They continue an ineffective strategy, thinking all that effort will be wasted if they stop now.

But here’s the harsh truth: continuing an ineffective strategy is the real waste.

In a market where one mailbox might receive 30 real estate postcards in a single day, how is yours going to stand out?

Not to mention, in any given ZIP code, less than 3% of people might be considering moving in the next five years. You’re essentially throwing money at a strategy that’s targeting the wrong people at the wrong time.

The lesson here? Don’t let the fear of wasting past investments keep you from making smarter choices now.

It’s okay to admit something isn’t working and pivot to more effective, targeted marketing strategies. Your future success is worth more than the money you’ve already spent.

4. Surrounding Yourself with Stagnation

Your concept of success is 100% related to the people around you. If you make $150,000 a year and everyone in your office makes $100,000, you’ll feel successful. But if everyone else makes $500,000, you’ll strive for more.

When I was selling real estate, I was doing 10-15 times the volume of anyone else in my office. The office actually closed when I stopped selling. But my success came from networking with other top producers in the market, not from my immediate office environment.

I had a network of other agents in my market that I spent a lot of time with. We had a WhatsApp chat with the top ten producers in the market. We were constantly giving each other stuff and sending deals back and forth. I probably did twenty deals every year just out of that WhatsApp chat from people asking for help or sharing opportunities.

Don’t limit yourself to your immediate surroundings. Seek out ambitious, successful individuals who push you to think bigger and achieve more.

Even if you can’t physically be around such people all the time, find ways to connect digitally or through industry events.

5. Not Iterating Your Strategy

I recently spoke with someone who said, “I went through The Listings Lab, it worked well, and my business doubled. Then the results started to dwindle, but I’ve been posting the same way for two years without much success.” Can you imagine doing the same thing for years with poor results?

Your marketing is always just data. Even when something is working well, always ask: “What’s the data telling me? How can I iterate and make this better?” 

For example, if your email open rates are at 42%, how can you push that to 45%? Small improvements can lead to significant results over time.

Marketing is never a one-and-done process.

It’s the lifeblood of your business and it needs constant refinement. 

6. Paying for Ads Without a Validated Niche and Message

I had a conversation with a couple a while back who are doing well, but 100% of their business comes from paid traffic. They have absolutely nothing going organically. Imagine if they were testing and succeeding organically first—their paid traffic results could be exponentially better.

This is like trying to run before you can walk. Paid advertising can be a powerful tool, but it’s not a substitute for a solid organic strategy.

It’s like turning on a faucet – the water (leads) flows as long as you’re paying, but turn it off, and everything dries up.

The solution?

Build up momentum with your organic marketing, then pour fuel to the fire with paid ads. Never run paid traffic without a validated niche and message. 

7. Outsourcing Your Marketing

Hiring a company or VA to handle your social media might seem like a time-saver, but in reality it’s a HUGE mistake. It’s so easy to tell when someone has outsourced their marketing—it becomes generic, losing the personal touch and connection elements.

Your marketing should reflect your personality, insights, and unique value proposition. No matter how good a marketing agency or VA is, they can’t embody YOU quite like you.

Instead, take control of your marketing to build a strong personal brand as a real estate agent. 

Now, out of those 7, I want you to identify which one you are guilty of right now. For the next week, focus on that one thing where you thought, “Ugh, yes I’m doing that.”

If you’re struggling with spending time around stagnant people, for instance, search out events or opportunities to connect with more ambitious, successful individuals. Even a few days in the right environment can make a BIG difference.

Or maybe you realized you’ve been falling for the sunk cost fallacy. Take a hard look at your marketing budget this week. Are there any ineffective strategies you’re clinging to just because you’ve already invested in them?

Take some time to reflect, using this blog post as your guide.

Remember, don’t beat yourself up if you’re making these mistakes. Awareness around what you’re getting wrong is the first step to getting it right. 

By addressing even one of these issues, you can significantly improve your real estate marketing and start seeing better results in your business.

And if you need more support as you elevate your marketing strategy and refine your messaging, be sure to check out The Listings Lab.

You’ll get the exact blueprint thousands of agents have used to turn their businesses around and go from stagnant to thriving, with consistent leads, sales, and a renewed sense of confidence in their brand.

Book a call with our team HERE if you’re ready to make a change.

3 Ways To Uplevel Your Real Estate Social Media And Grab More Attention 

Let’s talk about attention.

Not just any attention—the kind that makes your ideal clients stop scrolling and start engaging.

Because when it comes to marketing your real estate services on social media, here’s the harsh truth…

You’re not just competing with other agents for attention.

You’re competing with the Kardashians and Taylor Swift for those precious seconds of screen time.

Everyone’s online feeds are highly saturated. We’re so inundated with content that we become very picky with what we choose to consume.

The Problem with Traditional Real Estate Content

Before we dive into solutions, let’s address why most real estate content fails to capture attention.

It’s plain and simple…

Most real estate content is incredibly boring and generic.

We’ve got agents out there introducing themselves like they’re at a corporate board meeting: “Hello, my name is John Smith from XYZ Realty, and I am here to talk to you today about…”

Let’s be honest – who’s sticking around to hear the rest of that?

This kind of content lacks personality. People want to connect with you, not a corporate robot. It also doesn’t include any clear value proposition. Why should they care about your content? If you can’t answer that in the first three seconds, you’ve lost them.

So how can you break through the noise?

You need to become a master at capturing attention.

You need to start thinking of yourself as a marketer first, and a real estate agent second.

Let’s break down how you can go from forgettable to scroll-stopping so you can sign more ideal clients online.👇🏼

The Three Pillars of Attention-Grabbing Content

When it comes to capturing attention on social media, there are three key elements you need to master: 

  1. Visual Hooks
  2. Content or Copy Hooks
  3. Creative Imagery 

Let’s break these down and see how you can use each one to stop the scroll and keep people’s eyes on your content.

1. Visual Hooks

Visual hooks are all about catching the eye and then keeping it. The key here is movement. Start your videos with action—sit down in a chair, walk through a door, do something unexpected.

Static, face-to-camera intros are dead. You need to grab attention from the first second.

But it’s not just about how you start your videos. It’s about keeping things visually interesting throughout. Use B-roll footage to break up talking head videos. Just remember, even with great visuals, you still need a strong hook at the top of your content.

Don’t get complacent with your backdrop, either. If you’re always in the same spot, your audience will begin to tune you out. Switch up your background regularly. Don’t just record video after video at your desk.

Record yourself while walking, change your filming locations, and experiment with different angles. 

Another way to capture attention is to subtly change your appearance. Wear different outfits, switch up your glasses, and give visual cues that this is new, fresh content.

Sometimes, the simplest movements can be enough. Start a video by putting on your glasses or taking them off. Begin a video with you applying lip gloss. It’s that easy.

Remember, movement catches the eye and keeps it. Make your visuals dynamic and engaging.

2. Content or Copy Hooks

Your words are powerful tools for grabbing attention. Forget about announcing what you’re going to talk about. Instead, make your audience unable to look away.

Use hook formulas that create curiosity, urgency, or even a bit of controversy.

Consider starting with something like, “You’re not going to believe what I just found…”
or, “First-time homebuyers have been lied to…”. 

These hooks are significantly more compelling than the standard “I want to talk to you today about…” approach. They immediately engage the reader and create a desire to learn more.

If you’re not sure your headlines are cutting it, use a tool like CoSchedule’s Headline Analyzer. It’ll give you a reality check on how engaging your titles really are. But fair warning: you might be a little disappointed when you see your scores!

Want to up your headline game? Check out this guide to mastering your real estate headlines. 

But remember, it takes more than just a good hook to get people to keep reading. Embrace storytelling in your content to keep people engaged. People connect with narratives more than facts.

And instead of recording stiff videos, be conversational. Talk like you’re chatting with a friend, not giving a corporate presentation.

3. Creative Imagery

Your images can make or break your content. Ditch the boring headshots and black-and-white photos. Use color to grab attention. Show your face, but make it interesting. Funny expressions, action shots, or behind-the-scenes pictures work well! 

If you’re using carousels, make sure the front image has your face in it. We’ve tested this a million different ways, and it always performs better.

And when it comes to editing, less is more. People want to see the real you, not an overly polished version. We’ve all seen those over-edited pictures where you think, “Did you put ten filters on this before you posted it?”

Use images that tell a story or evoke emotion. Remember, your visuals should support your message, not distract from it.

The Million-Dollar Question

Ask yourself this: Would you stop scrolling to read your own content?

If the answer is no, it’s time to make it more powerful.

Look at the content creators you actually enjoy following. What makes them stand out? How can you incorporate those elements into your own style?

You’re not just a real estate agent anymore. You’re a content creator, a storyteller, and above all – a marketer.

Your job? Make people stop, look, and engage. 

Ready to transform your real estate marketing and become a true attention architect?

The strategies we’ve discussed are just the beginning. If you’re serious about building a seven-figure real estate business, The Listings Lab is your next step.

Book a call with our team to see if our program is right for you. We’ll help you master the art of attention-grabbing marketing and dominate your marketplace in just 90 days.

Your future clients are waiting – it’s time to get in front of them.